The first date is a very important moment in the relationship between a man and a woman. On how well everything will pass, the further relations of the couple also depend. Perhaps a good outcome of the meeting will lead to a violent romance or even a successful marriage. Or, on the contrary, you will understand that you are not destiny of each other and will disperse.
Women very often experience how to behave on the first date . Let's try to consider the main nuances, because of which experienced the representative of the fair sex.
To choose clothes, make-up and hairstyles need to approach very responsibly. But do not pay this aspect all the time. A man must see before him a well-groomed and neatly dressed girl, and not a painted doll with a varnished hairdo and a painted face.
Note! It is better not to overdo with a bright make-up and manicure, this applies to perfume.
You in fact do not know preferences of the guy, suddenly at it or him cause an allergy or even disgust the sharp artificial smells. It is better that the body emits a pleasant smell of cleanliness and light freshness.
Note! Clothing should be chosen based on the place of meeting.
If you are invited for a walk in the park, do not wear too high heels and a mini-skirt. You will be uncomfortable to be in such shoes for a long time, and the short length of the skirt will be embarrassing, you can not normally sit down and will constantly pull it off.
If you have an evening in a restaurant, cafe or nightclub, you can wear a dress more interesting, for example, a beautiful dress. It is desirable that it was without vulgar cleavage and ultra-short mini, unless you are pursuing the goal of dragging a guy into bed for one night and then safely forget about him.
The first meeting may well end with a long romance or remain a simple flirtation , but the main thing is that the meeting should have its continuation (in the event that the man you like).
The main rule: you need to behave as naturally as possible. You do not have to worry much, remember that dating a man is not the end of the world, he, like you, may be worried and nervous. Try to smooth out the nervousness with an open smile and a clear glance.
Note! Listen carefully and do not interrupt the interlocutor. Try to show interest in what he says.
Do not overdo it, so that the guy does not have a feeling that you are agreeing to him just out of a desire to please.
Do not complain to a man about life, talk about their failures and problems. The guy wants to see on the first date a cheerful smiling girl, and not boring nagging about their difficulties.
Do not need to show the man that you wildly want to get married. Men feel this on an unconscious level and flee from such ladies. It is better, on the contrary, to show that now you are not tuned to a serious romance. Again, everything needs a measure, so that the guy does not think that he is not interesting to you, and that you do not see him as a long-term partner and, possibly, a future husband.
It is advisable to choose for the first date a place in which you have already been and which does not cause you negative emotions. Thus, you will feel somewhat more confident.
Note! If you go with a guy in a restaurant, you do not need to order a lot of expensive meals.
It may seem to the guy immodest and tactless. In addition, you still do not know the financial capabilities of men and can put him in an awkward position. It is better to limit oneself to a modest order and offer a man to pay himself. So you will show your independence and allow your companion to be a real man if he resolutely rejects your proposal and calculates independently.